How to Give the BEST Blowjob of His Life

Tom (partner of Helen from Sex, Love and Desire) wrote this piece after Helen wrote an article about great cunnilingus. Sounds hot!

So, I’m looking for some-one to practice on?

Blow Your Partner a Happy Christmas

how toI’ll be giving you a man’s perspective on receiving fellatio, and hopefully give you some fun ideas for you to try with your partners.

You may think it’s simple enough to pleasure a man in this way, and in a way that is true; do anything to a man’s cock for long enough and you’ll make him come. But like women, men can have very different kinds of orgasms ranging from a pleasant tingling down there to body-rocking ecstasy that you feel all the way to your fingers. Giving incredible head to your man is a chance for you to give him a uniquely erotic, intimate and downright dirty experience that I guarantee he’ll want to reciprocate.

Firstly ladies (or men, let’s be fair), the most important thing when pleasuring your man in this is to be hungry for him: you want to devour his cock, you are desperate to make him come, and you can’t wait to feel that thick throbbing prick filling your wet mouth. This desire is the sexiest thing for a man. If you make your man believe these things, whether you enjoy giving oral sex or not, you won’t go far wrong.

Start by teasing his cock with your fingers, explore every inch of it. Cup and massage his balls, caress his shaft with your fingertips and, if he’s comfortable with it, stroke the sensitive area between his balls and his arsehole, all the time writhing and purring as if these small movements are as sweetly torturous for you as they will be for him. Once your touch has him rock hard and quivering with anticipation, bend low and deep and run your tongue up his shaft, leaving a glistening trail of moistness down his entire length, look up at your man and flash him a naughty grin as you reach the head of his cock, and he will be putty in your hands.

Grasp his shaft firmly and continue writhing your tongue around his hard dick, variety is fun, so alternate between fast and slow, long and short licks. Ever tried to eat an ice-cream that’s melting too quickly? That’s the motion you’re going for.  Circle the head of his dick with your tongue and firmly press your lips down over it, making sure to let your saliva coat it completely, even spit on it, let it dribble down his shaft and work it into his balls. You may feel awkward doing this at first, but I guarantee that nothing gets a man going more than seeing how much his manhood gets your juices flowing.

milfhunter-juliette-1When you feel you’ve teased him enough, without warning, dive down onto his cock, devouring it. Take it as deep as you can manage, as if you can’t get enough. When you are forced to emerge for air, fix your man’s gaze with a naughty smile; the look of pleasure and surprise on his face will be worth it. Take him again in your mouth, work your hands in rhythm with the movement of your lips up and down his dick. A little tip girls, it is sensitive down there; definitely go deep, but try not to push back his foreskin too far (if he has one), nothing kills a man’s mood quicker than that awful tugging sensation!

gaggingContinue working up and down his shaft with your mouth, if you really want to spoil him, force his cock to the back of your throat until you can’t help but gag on it and come up gasping for air, it may not be comfortable for you, but he’ll be very satisfied that his cock is just too big for you to handle. As before, wetter is better; keep him well lubricated, look him in the eye as you trail saliva down onto his waiting cock, then rub the moistness all over him, pumping his shaft and working on the head of his cock.

In many ways the build up to an orgasm is the most intense and gratifying part, the anticipation that at any moment you might reach breaking point and explode. Keep your man in this state for as long as possible by alternating your speed and techniques; pump his shaft vigourously until you feel him nearing climax, then slow down, gently take him in your mouth to cool him off, then build him up again. He will find this infuriating but delicious, at the same time both wanting so hard to cum and yet also prolong the ecstasy as long as possible. Remember, men can only come once, so make the build up last!

8c88139792a34ba4c69fd918a8530241Eventually you will see the signs that your man can last no more; you’ve brought him to the brink and now he’s about to go over the edge. Make sure his dick is moist and slowly stroke the top of his shaft while you position your mouth around the head of his dick, eager to accept his hot load in your moist, hungry mouth. Whisper dirty encouragement to him, “Cum for me baby, I need you to cum in my mouth”. When you feel the orgasm hit, keep pumping his cock, squeezing every last drop from his quivering dick. Then as his orgasm subsides, gradually slow to a stop, continuing to kiss his spent and satisfied cock as you do so.

Now I know there’s the eternal “spit or swallow” debate, and that many woman find this aspect of the act off-putting, but it’s really very simple; whatever you do, just enjoy it. Whether you swallow it, toy with it, or let it dribble over you pert breasts, remember you’re doing it for him: after all, how would you react if he recoiled at the taste of your juices? Oral sex is all about reciprocation; you are focusing on your partner fully for the time, but if you satisfy them and make it pleasurable for them, they will want to do the same for you.

 

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