Good Anal Sex Vs Great Anal Sex

This has been reblogged from Girl On The Net:

Anal sex is a topic I have done to death here before. If you’ve been reading for longer than a few weeks, you know that it’s one of my favourite things. The tightness of it, the promise of something deliciously TABOO, the way he’ll whisper ‘good girl’ in my ear as I wriggle back onto his cock… unngh.

Thing is I’m not always great at it. Usually the start of a good fuck in the ass is a fifty/fifty gamble. I might get relaxed and excited, as he holds the tip of his dick right up against me, and feel like it’s easy as hell to push back onto him. I might, on the other hand, get nervous that it’ll slip in too quickly, and the thickness of it will make me tense up.

When people ask about butt sex – or write those Top Ten Tips On How To Get It In Properly – the main tip they give is: use lube. Lots of lube. So much lube that you worry you’re going to cause a bedroom oil slick. Drown yourselves in lube. Gallons and gallons, until sex toy companies announce a shortage and scientists start researching whether friction is finite.

That’s true, of course, and it’s a good tip. In my opinion, water-based lube is better, but that might just be because of the selection of bottles I have by the side of my bed, the water-based one is the biggest so it’s the easiest to grab in a sticky moment.

But my better tip for great anal sex (at the moment, at least – these things change depending on my mood and my body and the time of day) has less to do with lube and everything to do with angle and control…

Hot Anal Sex

We’re in bed and he’s lying behind me, spooning – cock rock solid and squeezed between my thighs. Not my thighs, really, my cheeks. Right at the top. Thrusting through, the head of his dick splits my cunt and touches my clit, and the slickness starts to cover it.

He grips me, one big hand squeezing my arse, and crushing me tighter onto him. Fucking slowly, lazily. Like he’s just testing how much pleasure he can get with no penetration. Just a languid rhythm with his dick and his hands squeezing me tighter.

“Get the lube.”

He does.

And he rubs it not just all over his dick but all over me too – slick handfuls of it over my cheeks, thighs, and into the folds of my cunt.

We fuck a bit faster. Still not going in, just rubbing against each other in the way that feels best.

“Can you come like this?”

“Maybe.”

“Do you want to?”

“No.”

And this is the good part – this is the part I like. When I’m relaxed and so horny for it that I can slide him in easily. I pull my knees up towards my chest, brace my hands against the bedposts, and settle myself neatly onto his prick. The head of it teasing the entrance to my ass, gently pulsing. Waiting. He’s got one arm round my neck and the other – slippery and firm – on my arse. Waiting.

Waiting.

I slide back, ever-so-gently. Just enough that I can feel the head push against me. Not quite in yet. I push back further and he moans.

“Good girl.”

Again.

“That’s it.”

Again.

“Do it.”

And I slide back further, at which point he starts to fuck. It’s still not quite in. I’m holding back slightly – whimpering into the pillow with the effort of it: that delicious combination of desire and uncertainty. He fucks me with quick, gentle strokes, never going further in than I’ve already pushed myself. Giving me just a taster of what I really want, which is his cock, fat and hard and twitching, fucking me hard right up to the hilt.

At this angle I have as much control as I want, so the challenge is in deciding just how far I want to push it.

And of course I want to push it. Knees tucked tighter to my chest, hands gripping the bars at the head of the bed, I grit my teeth, cry into the pillow, and push back until I have every inch of him inside me.

He fucks me harder until his breath is ragged, and his dick tightens inside me ready for the moment when he comes. A second before it happens, when the final few hard thrusts begin, I grip the bars harder with my now-trembling hands, and ask him if I’m good.

“Good?” he replies, as he pumps spunk deep inside me. “You’re a fucking angel.”

…I want some!

The #Double Penetration Dream

As you might remember, I have insatiable (at the moment) fantasies about multiple penetration. I found this article on Swingers.org: time for a share…

Positive Effects of Double Penetration

Many couples are looking to spice things up a bit in the bedroom and every man and woman have some kind of fantasy that they want to act out. Double penetration is one of those fantasies and it can either be a woman’s or a man’s fantasy. In order to properly do double penetration all of the participants should be on board with the act. You don’t want someone to do something that they don’t want to do or that will be rape. Double penetration can happen in a few different ways. One is where two men are involved and the woman is penetrated vaginally and anally, or the mouth can be used as well, or a sex toy can be used if there is only one man.

It is fun to try new things but it can be scary to try this kind of act, so you want to go slow with it and maybe even work your way up to it. In recent studies it has been shown that more woman are becoming more adventurous with their sex lives and more women are even trying taboo things like anal sex more than what they did before. Many have also found out that women can reach orgasm during anal sex, which makes it more appealing to them. So basically if a woman knows that they can orgasm from having anal sex then they are more willing to at least try it.

Studies have also shown that women that have tried double penetration are more likely to have a vaginal orgasm than ones that are just having intercourse vaginally. And when you are the woman in the double penetration, you get all of the attention, unlike other threesomes with another woman. There is a good chance that you can have an orgasm anally and vaginally with is double the fun for woman and the men of the group.

Once all of the people that are participating in double penetration agree on all of the ground rules, then they can do it. You have to kind of prepare for something like this especially if you are a woman. And you have to make sure to use enough lubricating so it doesn’t hurt. Nothing can turn a woman off faster when trying something new if it is painful to her. All of the stereotypes of only porn stars doing things like double penetration have gone away because couples are more adventurous today than they were years ago.

Interested in DP? Try some sexy stories from real members of Swinglifestyle like:

Valentines Double Penetration & Wifes First Double Penetration

Attention Guys…Really?

So I’m a sad, single sub looking for love and I’m on OkCupid (as well as too many other dating sites!) attracting way too many losers.

My last conversation (with his grammatical experiments):

Him: Your so sexy. I want to fuck you up the arse.

Me: You would have had a chance (I love anal sex!) if your introductory message had been a little more inspiring.

What are you guys thinking? Really?

 

Limited

I found where my limits lie tonight
My current limits, I’d assume;

After training to crawl
Progressing slowly to my room.

After the crop danced across my ass
To become a stinging symphony of strokes;
Followed by your one-handed applause,
Chafing my cheeks, groans evoked.

The desire for the soft touch of suede
Soon transformed to a throbbing flay;
Moving to my unsullied back
Woven welts winding their way.

I found where my limits lie tonight.
Beseeching Sir, crop in hand,
Begging, crying, Please not my breasts
My limits lie within his hands.

Look What I Did…

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When Fantasy Becomes Reality

After all the fantasies in my head, it was finally going to happen today!

3.50 – I receive a text: 10 mins away

4.00 – Next text: Walking up the driveway

So, I’m presenting as commanded: kneeling on the bed, with my legs spread; and my ass in the air, facing towards the door. I hear the front door open and I take a deep breath. (camera click) I hear His shoes come off, His belt undone, His pants dropping. I feel a cold hand on the right cheek of my butt, grabbing it like a child with a Christmas present. He runs both His hands from my flanks, along my body and up to my shoulders. Then I hear Him drop to His knees. I feel the unshaven stubble against the tender skin of my bottom; then I feel the warmth of His tongue invade my asshole. I let out a trembling breath. His entire face is buried between my cheeks.

I feel one finger tentatively circle my anus then push it’s way into the tightness. Mmm…I love that feeling. His finger is replaced with a slightly thicker thumb. (camera click) Then, two fingers. Holy Shit! How many fingers do you have in there? I ask. Two. Should I try another one? He replies. Hell, yes!

The fingers are withdrawn. I feel the emptiness. Then a larger, cold tip is pushing at my still-tight hole. He pushes it in further. I feel tingles run from my ass all the way to my shoulders. ‘Tingles’ doesn’t actually describe those feelings – it was like, when I was a lot younger and I had taken an Ecstasy tablet and, when I ran my nails over my stockings and the feeling that happened then. Those feelings took my breath away. Do you want more? He asks. I want Your cock, please…

Cold lube dribbles into my ass. He spreads my ass cheeks. (camera click) He massages some lube into and around my hole. He slides His cock into my warmth. Oh, my! He fits perfectly. He slaps my butt. I startle, as if I have been shocked with a jolt of electricity. He starts with short thrusts, lengthening as He feels me relax. Then He starts thrusting. He isn’t just in my ass; He is fucking my ass. And I am groaning loudly with enjoyment. Why haven’t I done this sooner?

He removes His cock. I hear something behind me. He starts to enter my hole again. Oh! I really do like that initial entry! (camera click) He delves in deeper. (camera click) He climbs onto the bed so He is standing astride me and drilling my ass. Those primal grunts are coming from me?

Turn over. With your head down this end. He removes the condom. His cock hangs above my face. I open my mouth and His cock falls within it as He leans forward to finger, lick and nuzzle my pussy…for forever! How do I keep sucking His cock and playing with His balls when there are so many fabulous sensations being generated from my nether regions?

He stands again; grabs another condom as He moves to the other side of the bed. He gently pushes His cock inside my pussy. We are finally face to face. I look up at his face, so close to mine. I grin. So hi! How are you?

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Used

It’s 5am and I’m woken by cold fingers ransacking my warm pussy. Another cold hand clamps my chilling screams within my throat. Those cold fingers are heating up and delve, one by one, into my cunt. My fear is turning me on. Without lube, an entire fist slips into my soaking pussy. Inside myself, I can feel fingers expanding. My muffled shrieks develop into grunts as the air is thrust out of my lungs. The fingers play me like a piano and, just like that, I belong to them.

Somehow, that message was communicated to the other hand. It left my mouth, tentatively – just in case it had interpreted the missive incorrectly – and moved slowly, almost like a caress, along my lengthened throat; open and wide over my too-ripe breasts; and stopping at the centre of my torso. That hand manoeuvred me onto my front.

I stayed on my knees, with my ass up in the air, so I could actually handle the sensations being generated from the furnace within me. I heard the owner of those hands spit and felt liquid drip down the crack of my ass and into my asshole. Again, the spit – this time the aim was better and dribbled straight into my hole. Oh! Oh, no! I realized what the owner of those fingers was intending.

My face was rammed into my pillow as a finger spread the wetness around the rim of, and inside, my back passage. Although I knew, and dreaded, what was to follow; right then, I marvelled at the phenomenon being created by that circling finger.

I was becoming overwrought with sensory overload. Yes, it was still dark but there were fireworks going off in my pussy; a shooting star was orbiting my anus; the voices in my head were shouting; and, I could feel my fear, floating above it all, watching the scene and laughing.

The pain tore through the night’s fury. The hand that had been gently circling my asshole was now holding one of my legs straight up in the air, while a rock-hard phallus thrust in and out of my extended chasm; and the other hand continued to drill my cunt.

I could hardly catch my breath, let alone scream. Then I felt something shudder against me.

My leg was dropped. Foreign objects withdrawn from my orifices. I curled up into a ball. A shadow left my room and I heard the front door close.

I, and every part of me, had been used.

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In Site XXIII

Sinning Wistfully

How hot are the written words of The Wistful Sinner, whose writing seduces, entices, and brings you to a trembling edge:

In a Strong, Quiet Voice

“I know you heard me…I said, turn your sweet ass around and present to me. I will not be saying it a third time.”

And I won’t.

I will always allow you to disobey, that is your choice.

Honestly, sometimes I enjoy when you test me. I love the fire in your eyes when you say “No.”

It’s that balance, that give/take, that sets you apart from the others. It’s what keeps me hungry, interested.

When you submit your body, your saturated flesh, when you do this at my quiet command, I feel the blessing of complete trust.

When you dig in your heels, when you make me prove, make me punish, you treat it as a mutual gift. A moment for us to test our bonds, often with you bound. I cherish your free will, your strong nature. You keep me hard, ready.

But right now, I suggest you turn that sweet ass around and present.

I have something special for you, my pet.

What I Wish was in Pandora’s Box (maybe not yet…but later!)

Multiple Penetration

After looking at blogs and websites, my fantasies (NOT necessarily to be turned into reality) now include multiple penetration…and not necessarily one man and some toys.

But, other than in porn, it is a definite taboo – but people actually do it, don’t they?…Don’t they?

So, now I’m thinking about how it fits within my fantasy life…and it is always a rape scene or my Dom ‘forcing’ me to have sex with numerous men as an act of submission.

Is it that much of an inviolable subject that, even in fantasy world, it must be an activity that one is compelled to do?

Any thoughts anybody? Please…

First Choice of Position

Second Choice of Position

Third Choice of Position

And, just in case, there is any remaining energy…