How to Give the BEST Blowjob of His Life

Tom (partner of Helen from Sex, Love and Desire) wrote this piece after Helen wrote an article about great cunnilingus. Sounds hot!

So, I’m looking for some-one to practice on?

Blow Your Partner a Happy Christmas

how toI’ll be giving you a man’s perspective on receiving fellatio, and hopefully give you some fun ideas for you to try with your partners.

You may think it’s simple enough to pleasure a man in this way, and in a way that is true; do anything to a man’s cock for long enough and you’ll make him come. But like women, men can have very different kinds of orgasms ranging from a pleasant tingling down there to body-rocking ecstasy that you feel all the way to your fingers. Giving incredible head to your man is a chance for you to give him a uniquely erotic, intimate and downright dirty experience that I guarantee he’ll want to reciprocate.

Firstly ladies (or men, let’s be fair), the most important thing when pleasuring your man in this is to be hungry for him: you want to devour his cock, you are desperate to make him come, and you can’t wait to feel that thick throbbing prick filling your wet mouth. This desire is the sexiest thing for a man. If you make your man believe these things, whether you enjoy giving oral sex or not, you won’t go far wrong.

Start by teasing his cock with your fingers, explore every inch of it. Cup and massage his balls, caress his shaft with your fingertips and, if he’s comfortable with it, stroke the sensitive area between his balls and his arsehole, all the time writhing and purring as if these small movements are as sweetly torturous for you as they will be for him. Once your touch has him rock hard and quivering with anticipation, bend low and deep and run your tongue up his shaft, leaving a glistening trail of moistness down his entire length, look up at your man and flash him a naughty grin as you reach the head of his cock, and he will be putty in your hands.

Grasp his shaft firmly and continue writhing your tongue around his hard dick, variety is fun, so alternate between fast and slow, long and short licks. Ever tried to eat an ice-cream that’s melting too quickly? That’s the motion you’re going for.  Circle the head of his dick with your tongue and firmly press your lips down over it, making sure to let your saliva coat it completely, even spit on it, let it dribble down his shaft and work it into his balls. You may feel awkward doing this at first, but I guarantee that nothing gets a man going more than seeing how much his manhood gets your juices flowing.

milfhunter-juliette-1When you feel you’ve teased him enough, without warning, dive down onto his cock, devouring it. Take it as deep as you can manage, as if you can’t get enough. When you are forced to emerge for air, fix your man’s gaze with a naughty smile; the look of pleasure and surprise on his face will be worth it. Take him again in your mouth, work your hands in rhythm with the movement of your lips up and down his dick. A little tip girls, it is sensitive down there; definitely go deep, but try not to push back his foreskin too far (if he has one), nothing kills a man’s mood quicker than that awful tugging sensation!

gaggingContinue working up and down his shaft with your mouth, if you really want to spoil him, force his cock to the back of your throat until you can’t help but gag on it and come up gasping for air, it may not be comfortable for you, but he’ll be very satisfied that his cock is just too big for you to handle. As before, wetter is better; keep him well lubricated, look him in the eye as you trail saliva down onto his waiting cock, then rub the moistness all over him, pumping his shaft and working on the head of his cock.

In many ways the build up to an orgasm is the most intense and gratifying part, the anticipation that at any moment you might reach breaking point and explode. Keep your man in this state for as long as possible by alternating your speed and techniques; pump his shaft vigourously until you feel him nearing climax, then slow down, gently take him in your mouth to cool him off, then build him up again. He will find this infuriating but delicious, at the same time both wanting so hard to cum and yet also prolong the ecstasy as long as possible. Remember, men can only come once, so make the build up last!

8c88139792a34ba4c69fd918a8530241Eventually you will see the signs that your man can last no more; you’ve brought him to the brink and now he’s about to go over the edge. Make sure his dick is moist and slowly stroke the top of his shaft while you position your mouth around the head of his dick, eager to accept his hot load in your moist, hungry mouth. Whisper dirty encouragement to him, “Cum for me baby, I need you to cum in my mouth”. When you feel the orgasm hit, keep pumping his cock, squeezing every last drop from his quivering dick. Then as his orgasm subsides, gradually slow to a stop, continuing to kiss his spent and satisfied cock as you do so.

Now I know there’s the eternal “spit or swallow” debate, and that many woman find this aspect of the act off-putting, but it’s really very simple; whatever you do, just enjoy it. Whether you swallow it, toy with it, or let it dribble over you pert breasts, remember you’re doing it for him: after all, how would you react if he recoiled at the taste of your juices? Oral sex is all about reciprocation; you are focusing on your partner fully for the time, but if you satisfy them and make it pleasurable for them, they will want to do the same for you.

 

When Fantasy Becomes Reality

After all the fantasies in my head, it was finally going to happen today!

3.50 – I receive a text: 10 mins away

4.00 – Next text: Walking up the driveway

presentSo, I’m presenting as commanded: kneeling on the bed, with my legs spread; and my ass in the air, facing towards the door. I hear the front door open and I take a deep breath. (camera click) I hear His shoes come off, His belt undone, His pants dropping. I feel a cold hand on the right cheek of my butt, grabbing it like a child with a Christmas present. He runs both His hands from my flanks, along my body and up to my shoulders. Then I hear Him drop to His knees. I feel the unshaven stubble against the tender skin of my bottom; then I feel the warmth of His tongue invade my asshole. I let out a trembling breath. His entire face is buried between my cheeks.

thumb (1)I feel one finger tentatively circle my anus then push it’s way into the tightness. Mmm…I love that feeling. His finger is replaced with a slightly thicker thumb. (camera click) Then, two fingers. Holy Shit! How many fingers do you have in there? I ask. Two. Should I try another one? He replies. Hell, yes!

The fingers are withdrawn. I feel the emptiness. Then a larger, cold tip is pushing at my still-tight hole. He pushes it in further. I feel tingles run from my ass all the way to my shoulders. ‘Tingles’ doesn’t actually describe those feelings – it was like, when I was a lot younger and I had taken an Ecstasy tablet and, when I ran my nails over my stockings and the feeling that happened then. Those feelings took my breath away. Do you want more? He asks. I want Your cock, please…

Lubed Up (1)Cold lube dribbles into my ass. He spreads my ass cheeks. (camera click) He massages some lube into and around my hole. He slides His cock into my warmth. Oh, my! He fits perfectly. He slaps my butt. I startle, as if I have been shocked with a jolt of electricity. He starts with short thrusts, lengthening as He feels me relax. Then He starts thrusting. He isn’t just in my ass; He is fucking my ass. And I am groaning loudly with enjoyment. Why haven’t I done this sooner?Intro (1)

He removes His cock. I hear something behind me. He starts to enter my hole again. Oh! I really do like that initial entry! (camera click) He delves in deeper. (camera click) He climbs onto the bed so He is standing astride me and drilling my ass. Those primal grunts are coming from me?

Turn over. With your head down this end. He removes the condom. His cock hangs above my face. I open my mouth and His cock falls within it as He leans forward to finger, lick and nuzzle my pussy…for forever! How do I keep sucking His cock and playing with His balls when there are so many fabulous sensations being generated from my nether regions?

He stands again; grabs another condom as He moves to the other side of the bed. He gently pushes His cock inside my pussy. We are finally face to face. I look up at his face, so close to mine. I grin. So hi! How are you?

 

What I Wish was in Pandora’s Box (maybe not yet…but later!)

Multiple Penetration

After looking at blogs and websites, my fantasies (NOT necessarily to be turned into reality) now include multiple penetration…and not necessarily one man and some toys.

But, other than in porn, it is a definite taboo – but people actually do it, don’t they?…Don’t they?

So, now I’m thinking about how it fits within my fantasy life…and it is always a rape scene or my Dom ‘forcing’ me to have sex with numerous men as an act of submission.

Is it that much of an inviolable subject that, even in fantasy world, it must be an activity that one is compelled to do?

Any thoughts anybody? Please…

First Choice of Position

spooning DP

Second Choice of Position

Doggy style DP

Third Choice of Position

Missionary DP

And, just in case, there is any remaining energy…

lots

Talk Dirty to Me

You write:
My gorgeous hot cunt, I dreamt of you last night and my hard solid cock was rigid and throbbing with need and desire to be driven into you, forcing you to take it all as I verbally expressed my hunger. My hands around your neck, I spread your legs as you stood before me, telling you to do as you’re told like a good little whore; my fingers sliding up your inner thigh. Yes, bitch, I am going to use you for my pleasure, I said, as my fingers teased your clit. Squirming and twisting, I turn you around, fasten a ball gag in your mouth and, after ripping off your blouse and bra, I bind your hands behind your back. With the uncertainty your anxiety increases, your breathing deepens and we both know you’re wet.
Oh, you fucking little cunt, I need all of you.
Spanking, thrusting, violating, changing positions, my language gets more vulgar and degrading as my desire intensifies. Fisting you – you are forced to cum for me, screaming. Slapping your face gently, I demand you do and say as I desire. ‘Til finally you belong to me, my fucking cum sucking slut, my hot bitch.
Even now I hunger, I am hard.

You write:
Oh, yes, you fucking filthy hot cunt, my hunger ignites with your words. I need to punish you for distracting me and making my cock ache.
You are my bitch and I know you need to be taken, used; you belong to me, you know you can feel it swelling in your soul – the emotion and need driving you towards me as the dark hunger in your soul begs to be expressed. We both know how much you need to spread your legs or bend over for me; we both know the dark submission in you begs to tell me that you are my fuck-toy, my dirty little bitch, my cunt. I know how much you would love to look into my eyes and beg to be used, to cum for me, violently, hard.
For only then will I fuck you, slut, only then will your eyes fall on my throbbing shaft.
The leather collar fastened around your neck, the cat collars on your wrist and ankles ready to be bound in any position I desire, often with your wrists bound to your ankles. Opening and exploring the depth of your sweet, wet cunt as my fingers slowly slide inside then, with a sudden movement, my entire hand. Forming a fist in your womb, I pump back and forth – enjoying your screams and moans. Look, bitch, look at your cunt lips around my wrist, see it and visualise it even when we are apart. You belong to me, slut.
My seed builds, ready to be shot deep in your arse and cunt, over your face and tits, and deep down your throat for a good cum sucking whore.
My whore.

My appetite for your words is never-ending.
I want my head filled with your dirty language while you bend me over, pulling my head back with your grip on my hair, and growling your filth in my ear.
I want your cock to be soaked with my cunt juices, sliding oh-so-easily in and out.
I want your palms smarting from the stinging spanking you give me.
I want to be used by every part of you, until I am begging you to allow me to rest.
Then I want you to ignore me, and continue to take what you want from your dirty whore.
I want you to shut me up by stuffing your cock in my mouth, forcing me to taste my own juices.
I want! I want! I want…do you want me to beg?
I especially want your cock to throb with thoughts of using and abusing me.
Oh, please let me meet you soon,
Your little slut xx

 

My Scene

So, I’m lying on bed – very, very horny…knowing that there is no one who is going to help me with this pent-up frustration.

I reach over to my bag of toys and pull out my favourite toy: the butterfly kiss. I am so very horny that it goes in without any effort

I turn it on: the motor hums; the sensations – teasing.

I need much more.

I turn the speed and intensity up… then some more – this is just NOT going to do it for me.

I grab my lube and coat my baby butt plug.  Slowly, slowly I insert it.

Aaah, it’s in… and I have the wonderful sensation of being filled.

4 in a boxI enjoy that feeling for a moment then I reach out for my Hitachi Magic Wand. I place it where the curve of the clit tickler and inserted part meet. I turn it on – it sends the vibrator into overdrive. I can feel the inside bit moving around instead of just vibrating. My clit is buzzing with joy. I turn the speed up.

Holy shit! That’s it!

…but my legs keep clamping together and I can’t seem to allow the sensations take over. I remove all my toys and find the starter bondage set that I bought: : I take out the leg restraints, attach them to my bed; and insert my ankles.

I have kept all the toys within reach so I start again. This time I put the butt plug in first. Again that wonderful feeling. Then the vibrator. Then the Wand.

Oh….this is better.

I lay back and let the sensations flow over me.

Little do I know that I had left the front door open and you were standing at my bedroom doorway watching me.

You watch until it looks like I am about to climax.

Then you crawl into my room to the foot of my bed. You slowly take out the butt plug.

It feels to me that I pushed it out with my tensed muscles.

So I still don’t know you’re there.

open assYou cup my ass with your hand and insert your thumb into my still well-lubricated ass-hole.

What the…?

Because my legs are bound, I can’t get myself up to see what’s going on – but the feeling is wonderful, so I let it keep going.

Next, you take away the Wand and put it to one side. The noise I make tells you that I’m not happy about it.

“Shhhh,” you whisper, “….close your eyes.”

I do as I’m told…because that thumb is moving in and out of ass and making me very happy. It also feels so naughty. And, even though I haven’t worked out who you are, I’m enjoying not knowing.

1. blindfoldedYou remove your thumb and take the blindfold from my kit – you blindfold me, while whispering in my ear, “I won’t hurt you, little one.”

The vibrator is still inside my pussy so the sound of your voice in my ear and the humming of the little machine makes all my muscles clench.

You attach the hand restraints to my bed and to me. I am now spread-eagled naked across my bed with just a blindfold, and a lot of vulnerability.

“Oh, little one,” you say, “you look edible and I’m ravenous.”

You leave the vibrator where it is and decide to claim ownership to my body. This is beginning to scare me. But you start to run your hands and mouth over my body. squeezyYour hands dance over my boobs, followed by your tongue swirling around my nipples. Your tongue plays there until my nipples are hard little nubs…then you pinch them, both at the same time.

I cry out.

Your tongue returns to ‘heal’ them…then you bite my left nipple.

I cry out again.

Your hands have been moving down my body, over the swell of my tummy, tumblr_ldwg5duBRX1qf1dmao1_500so that when I cry out, you insert two fingers into my pussy, with the vibrator.

I am so wet and hungry.

You move yourself so that you are astride me – your face looking towards my toes.

You slide your fingers and the vibrator from my cunt and insert a very wet middle finger into my asshole, while your thumb circles my clit.

My hips are thrusting forward.

“Calm down, little one,” you say. “Open your mouth.”

I do as I’m told.

You hang your cock above my mouth and let the pre-cum drip onto my lips. I lick them and open my mouth again. You lower your cock so the tip of it sits on my lower lip. I try to take it into my mouth – you pull it away.

“Just leave your mouth open,” you order, ”I will do the rest.”

I open my mouth widely. Everything about me is exposed and under your control.

024_RedTube_suckYou lower your cock to my mouth again, very slowly, just to see if I will behave. I leave my mouth open and try not to move, even though your thumb is adding pressure to my clit and I think you have put another finger in my asshole.

You lower yourself further. My tongue reaches out.

“Not yet, little one,” you say.

You allow more of your cock into my mouth…and more. Finally, you are almost sitting on my face – your balls on my nose.

“Now, little one, swirl your tongue around my cock.”

I try to do as I am told.

Your thumb is mimicking the movement of my tongue. I can’t keep still despite the restraints.

You keep your cock in my mouth but remove all the other pleasurable things from my body. I make a noise, a grunt, to show my displeasure.

“Stay still, or there will be no pleasure for you,” you command.

I stop moving.

“Keep your tongue moving,” you bark.

You lean down and insert I-don’t-know-how-many fingers into my asshole. All I know is that I have never felt this full or stretched. You put the tip of your tongue on my clit. I move forward to meet you. You remove your tongue.

“I told you not to move,” you warn.

I am almost in tears. I am so frustrated. I need some release. I lay still.

Once again, the tip of your tongue touches my clit.

I stay still.

The tip of your tongue dances slowly around my clit. I want you to touch it, to lick it, to do anything you want!

I stay still, hoping for more. I swirl my tongue around your cock with more intensity, thinking if I can please you, you will please me.

The warmth of your tongue envelops my clit. You can hear my muffled sigh

“Do NOT cum!” you order, “I have more, better things planned and you will not get them if you cum.”

I lay still, praying that I can handle all these sensations.

When your tongue invades the heat and wetness of my cunt, I buck and thrash and suddenly, waves are flowing over me and your face is soaked in my juices.

“Ah,” you say, “you have no control. You will have to be taught. Now stay still.”

Your tongue continues its exploration of my pussy. You wiggle your fingers in my ass. I try to remain still.  Your tongue begins to mimic a cock and thrust in and out of my pussy. Your cock starts to copy the rhythm until you are fucking my mouth. I wrap my lips around the girth of your cock as you thrust in and out of my mouth.

You move faster and faster. I think I’m about to choke. I try to take a breath, when I feel the warmth of you running down the back of my throat. I swallow it and try to breath.

You move your body from my face. You take your fingers and tongue from my body and I can hear you moving around but I don’t know what you’re doing…until I feel the tip of your cock rubbing against the lips of my cunt.

You lift my ass up and put your knees beneath it. You slowly put your cock into my cunt. I’m holding my breath. I feel the head enter my warmth, then more of you…I sigh contentedly (still trying not to move)…then more of you.

I can feel your cock in my tummy – at least that’s what it feels like.

fucked in chainsYou loosen the restraints on my feet and place my ankles over your shoulders, as you thrust the fullness of you into my inviting cunt. I grunt. You move rhythmically, with total control.

“Now you can start moving. Meet my cock with your body,” you demand.

As you plunge deeper, I lift my hips to meet you and swallow more and more of your cock. You’re holding me on an angle, so you are drilling into me. You thrust your thumbs into my asshole and grip onto my butt cheeks, so tightly that I can feel your nails.

The pumping begins to move faster. I grunt with each movement as the breath leaves my body.

You are holding onto my ass and spreading my cheeks wider and wider as you thrust as deep as you can into my body. I feel like I am about to break. Your grip tightens. I scream out. You fuck me faster and harder – harder than I have ever been fucked before.

Suddenly, it slows down as you cum inside me – yet deepens, if that’s possible, like you’re trying to milk all the juices from your body.

You remove your cock from my pussy.

I feel empty.

I feel you moving around me again.

tumblr_lehh4irHvi1qf1dmao1_500“Lick our juices from my cock,” you command, as you place your cock on my lips.

I begin to lap the wetness from your cock, trying to get each drop, trying to make you happy.

When I have done this, to your satisfaction, you move away from my mouth.

Once again, I hear you moving.

“Stay still, little one,” you whisper, “don’t move,” as you undo the restraints around my hands.

“Stay still, even if I have let you free,” you whisper.

I don’t move.

I hear you moving around some more.

 

Then I don’t hear anything anymore.

I remove my blindfold and you’re gone.

 

Father Hunger

Today is Fathers’ Day in Australia. It is also almost the one year anniversary of when my Father chose to throw me away.

Happy Fucking Fathers’ Day, Dad!
I tried to play good daughter
You said Jump, I asked How high?
Just like a good girl oughta

Thanks for your financial support
While I was growing up
Pity about the emotional side
Which you left at the pub

So I search for male attention
Offering all I have to give: my body
That’s what you led me to believe
To make me feel like nobody

I started my sexual quest
By handing over my virginity
To two unknown men
My version of the Holy Trinity

One cock in my sullied mouth
Another pumped my pussy
A girl’s ‘fantasy’
While my blood dripped like honey

If I was going to have sex
I was going to be good
There was no way in hell
That I would be a dead root

It doesn’t just happen, you know
A girl needs a model
So I learned what I know best
At my local brothel

If all I had was my body
And men willing to pay for it
Who was I
To refuse to take it

I loved two foreign boys
While I was on the ocean
Both of them, I found
With other girls in slow motion

Of course, I took them back
Perhaps an act of debasement
But with your influence
I have developed infinite patience

I proffer myself
To men I cannot obtain
In a pseudo-psycho
Desire to eradicate the pain

I am perfect mistress material
Thanks to you, my Father
I might as well be a slave
Some-one hand me a collar

In experiencing the loss of you
In my eyes, your rejection
I have become an ideal receptacle
To a man’s erection

Father Hunger is an emptiness
That leads to self-image obsession
Bouts of self-loathing
And, in my case, severe depression

So happy Fucking Fathers’ Day, Dad!

 

FUCK

Oh, to have a fuck right now
I am so on edge
I would do anything
Of this I can pledge

I want to attack your lips
With a force so blunt
And gyrate against your hips
To rub my hungry cunt

It doesn’t matter that
We’re surrounded by a crowd
It’s a huge party
And it’s good that it’s loud

I want you to kneel before me
I’ll hold your head in place
Lapping at my wet pussy
As I fuck your face

One hand on your throbbing cock
One hand squeezing my ass
My breathing getting faster
Your tongue inside my gash

The music throbs around us
The crowd is over-heated
The beat is primitive
Our actions are repeated

I am so horny that
When you stand and bend me over
I do not protest of
The over-exposure

Then I feel your knob
Knocking at my back door
That’s not what I want
But my screams you ignore

The rhythm is primal
The party has its own beat
The house seems to throb
My cries do not compete

You spread my ass cheeks
And plunge inside your cock
The pain takes my breath
But then I am shocked

As I get used to the feeling
I feel the pleasure rising
I feel myself start to cum
This really is surprising

It is absolutely delightful
My body, the band is pounding
Complete carnality
And totally astounding

I said I would do anything
To fuck right away
I just didn’t realise
It would be so risqué