Licking Your Brain

86e9c93ddaa3574f3162d40f5b604930I’m re-blogging this one from Dominant Soul because talking dirty is HOT! It is a skill that everyone needs to practice…a lot!

The Art of Talking Dirty

talkdirtyWhat is it about someone whispering in your ear that arouses us so intensely? Is it the deep intimacy of someone being so close, the erotic sensation of warm air on our ear or is there something deeply erotic about a shared hushed secret? Regardless, I don’t know anyone who does not find erotic talk arousing…

As many of you know, I believe the mind is our largest sex organ. Second only to sensual passionate kissing, dirty talk is probably the most powerful tool for arousing the mind. Erotic talk during foreplay arouses the mind and heightens the body’s sexual response beyond all belief. Unfortunately, lots of people feel nervous, shy or uncomfortable about talking dirty… Who doesn’t remember the episode of “Friends” where Ross Geller is pressured to talk dirty while making out with a really hot date so he nervously blurts out, “Vulva!”… LOL. Which completely killed the moment – Not the desired outcome at all… Epic fail.

Not to worry. Even for the terminally shy, talking dirty can be easy to pull off so you look like a smooth operator…

Simple Tips for Giving Great Dirty Talk:

  • colorful-lipsticksPlace your lips so close they occasionally tickle the tiny hairs of her ear. Your breath will tickle her and give her chills.
  • Caress her ear lobe with the tip of your nose. More chills!
  • Speak in soft, low tones. Make her want to move closer to you to hear every detail of what you are saying.
  • Enunciate each word clearly. Slow delivery makes her hang on each word.
  • Relax and speak with calm confidence. Calm assertive energy is the essence of Dominance – A confident, calm tone will put you in the driver’s seat of her mind…
  • Paint a vivid mental picture in her mind with small, slow brush strokes with your words. Describe in detail how she makes you feel and what you want to do to her step-by-step.
  • Start out slow to see how she reacts to you talking dirty with door openers like “I want to taste you” or ” I want to feel your wetness on the tip of my fingers” or “Even Good Girls need a spanking on occasion… Are you a “Good Girl or a “Very Bad Girl”?”.
  • To access her primal animal desires, give a low deep growl in her ear. Watch her shiver. If you are a woman, try purring in a man’s ear to watch him squirm.
  • To evoke a deeply emotional response and an intimate bond, say something deeply intimate and romantic like “Your smile in best thing in my life” or “You make me want to be a better man for you”. Obviously the goal here is to be heartfelt and sincere not shallow and crass so don’t steal lines from hollywood movies. Take the time to think of something original and personal from your heart.
  • Most people don’t know what to say so to make it simple for you when you first start out, describe how you want to slowly undress her – describe how you will remove each garment of her clothing in detail, then how you will slowly touch and tease each part of her body, then describe where you want to have her in the room (sitting on, bent over, lying on top of, etc), then how you want to have her in different ways (positions, sex acts).
  • As you get more confident and experienced, describe in detail a sexual fantasy you have involving her specifically that reflect your mutual desires (at her place, at her workplace, adventures on planned holiday together, her dressed in a corset and over-the-knee boots, her cooking dinner naked in in heels with just your white dress shirt, watching a girl/girl scene with her sexy college roommate, etc.).
  • Your two hands are completely free. Use them wisely. Instead of predictably focusing on reaching second base (Her breasts), softly caress her skin all over by slowly drawing your fingertips across her skin. Arouse her skin everywhere – arms, shoulders, back, thighs. Goosebumps are an excellent sign.
  • Voila! You have just thrown gasoline onto your smoldering fire…

Foreplay should be like a gourmet meal you savor each delicious course, not fast food you gulp down to reach the “Happy Meal Toy” at the end. Just like a good gourmet meal, knowing when to serve the salad, soup and cheese plate is key to making the experience flow seamlessly. Knowing when and where to introduce dirty talk is essential…

So don’t rush any phase of foreplay. Start by slow soft sensual kissing. Be creative and erotic with how you dance together with you lips and mouths. Like dancing the tango, varying tempos, varying pressure and throw in some fun playful surprises like biting her lower lip or softly sucking on her tongue… When I feel the time is right (usually indicated by how hard she is breathing or how passionately she is kissing), then I take hold of her roughly by pulling her head back by the hair or hold her still by grasping her by her throat gently with my hand. I then whisper in her ear, “Who is my naughty girl?”… eFtlTOnce she sheepishly admits that she is my naughty girl, I know she is in the right submissive sexual mindset for what I have planned next… I then kiss my way up her neck to her ear. Then I describe to her in great explicit detail, in my calm, deep voice, what I plan to do to tease and toy with her for the next few hours until she becomes a wildly uninhibited vixen begging to be fucked… When I know I have her boiling over, I then love to pull her head back by her hair or pull her panties aside to roughly to feel how wet her pussy has become…

Suddenly, there is no need to slow down for second base as she waves you in for home plate… Congratulations, you just upped your game… Relax, laugh together and have fun out there everyone…. 😀

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Oh…I Want

Oh God, I want
I want so much

I lay back

beautiful

My hands
A mind of their own
Run down my torso

Over my breasts
Over the cotton
Of my shirt

My nipples respond
Instantly

My hands
Find their way
Beneath my shirt

Within the grasp
Of my fingers
My breast clasped

hands betweenThen down
To the heat

Legs spread wide
Cool breeze flooding

My fingertips brush
Over soft stubble
Of Brazilian regrowth

My nails circling
Sensitive skin
Aching

Oh God, I want
I want so much

 

time to screw

take your time, please don’t hurry
i want to play, not worry
no schedule limits or restrictions
time to play with fantasy and fiction

touch your fingers to my lips
crush my mouth with a kiss
over the couchrun your hands through my hair
bunch it up and hold it there

kiss my neck, grab my breast
punish my nipples ‘til i protest
seize my hands behind my back
bend me over, give me a smack

push me facedown into the bed
with your knee, my legs you spread
take your time, claim every curve
turn me on, switch on each nerve

don’t miss a beat, grind deep inside
my sweet ass cheeks you shall divide
don’t stop, give me all of you
don’t miss a beat, i want to screw

When Fantasy Becomes Reality

After all the fantasies in my head, it was finally going to happen today!

3.50 – I receive a text: 10 mins away

4.00 – Next text: Walking up the driveway

presentSo, I’m presenting as commanded: kneeling on the bed, with my legs spread; and my ass in the air, facing towards the door. I hear the front door open and I take a deep breath. (camera click) I hear His shoes come off, His belt undone, His pants dropping. I feel a cold hand on the right cheek of my butt, grabbing it like a child with a Christmas present. He runs both His hands from my flanks, along my body and up to my shoulders. Then I hear Him drop to His knees. I feel the unshaven stubble against the tender skin of my bottom; then I feel the warmth of His tongue invade my asshole. I let out a trembling breath. His entire face is buried between my cheeks.

thumb (1)I feel one finger tentatively circle my anus then push it’s way into the tightness. Mmm…I love that feeling. His finger is replaced with a slightly thicker thumb. (camera click) Then, two fingers. Holy Shit! How many fingers do you have in there? I ask. Two. Should I try another one? He replies. Hell, yes!

The fingers are withdrawn. I feel the emptiness. Then a larger, cold tip is pushing at my still-tight hole. He pushes it in further. I feel tingles run from my ass all the way to my shoulders. ‘Tingles’ doesn’t actually describe those feelings – it was like, when I was a lot younger and I had taken an Ecstasy tablet and, when I ran my nails over my stockings and the feeling that happened then. Those feelings took my breath away. Do you want more? He asks. I want Your cock, please…

Lubed Up (1)Cold lube dribbles into my ass. He spreads my ass cheeks. (camera click) He massages some lube into and around my hole. He slides His cock into my warmth. Oh, my! He fits perfectly. He slaps my butt. I startle, as if I have been shocked with a jolt of electricity. He starts with short thrusts, lengthening as He feels me relax. Then He starts thrusting. He isn’t just in my ass; He is fucking my ass. And I am groaning loudly with enjoyment. Why haven’t I done this sooner?Intro (1)

He removes His cock. I hear something behind me. He starts to enter my hole again. Oh! I really do like that initial entry! (camera click) He delves in deeper. (camera click) He climbs onto the bed so He is standing astride me and drilling my ass. Those primal grunts are coming from me?

Turn over. With your head down this end. He removes the condom. His cock hangs above my face. I open my mouth and His cock falls within it as He leans forward to finger, lick and nuzzle my pussy…for forever! How do I keep sucking His cock and playing with His balls when there are so many fabulous sensations being generated from my nether regions?

He stands again; grabs another condom as He moves to the other side of the bed. He gently pushes His cock inside my pussy. We are finally face to face. I look up at his face, so close to mine. I grin. So hi! How are you?

 

What I Wish was in Pandora’s Box (maybe not yet…but later!)

Multiple Penetration

After looking at blogs and websites, my fantasies (NOT necessarily to be turned into reality) now include multiple penetration…and not necessarily one man and some toys.

But, other than in porn, it is a definite taboo – but people actually do it, don’t they?…Don’t they?

So, now I’m thinking about how it fits within my fantasy life…and it is always a rape scene or my Dom ‘forcing’ me to have sex with numerous men as an act of submission.

Is it that much of an inviolable subject that, even in fantasy world, it must be an activity that one is compelled to do?

Any thoughts anybody? Please…

First Choice of Position

spooning DP

Second Choice of Position

Doggy style DP

Third Choice of Position

Missionary DP

And, just in case, there is any remaining energy…

lots

Please…

You stand over me as I try again to fist myself – I still can’t do it. And no matter how hard you encourage me, I cannot do it.

Angrily, you flip me over. You wipe the butt plug along my cunt, covering it in pussy juices. Then, without thought to my comfort, you stuff it in my virgin hole.

“Yes, my little one, I WILL be invading that hole with my cock very soon!”

Still standing above me but between my legs, you order your whore to insert her vibrator – the one with the remote control, the one that you control. Slowly you turn up the speed and intensity on both the rotating head and clit tickler until they are at their maximum.

You snarl into my ear, “Don’t you dare cum, you Slut, I have more to do…”

You put down the remote control down beside me: “Don’t even think of touching it, Whore!” I am squirming and groaning with the intensity of the vibrator.

You lean into my top drawer and withdraw my Hitachi Magic Wand. You remove the padded head so just the hard nub is vibrating and turn the speed up to high.

“I’m going to use this on you now. You will enjoy it, you Whore, but if you cum, I will punish you.”

You blindfold me so I cannot see what you are going to do…then I feel the intense vibration on my left nipple. My back arches and I groaned loudly. HOLY FUCK!

“You would like that, wouldn’t you, my filthy fucktoy?” you say, laughing meanly.

You move it down my stomach. I am holding my breath. Then you take it away from my skin completely. I can hear the motor running and your breath but I don’t know what you’re going to do next.

“You want more, don’t you, Whore?” you growl in my ear.

I whine in response.

“Tell me how much you want me to use this on you, to use you completely.”

I beg: “Please, please, I want it. Let me cum”

“No, you still can’t cum but I might give you more of this because you asked so nicely, Bitch!”

You put the head of the toy at the base of the butt plug. I scream out. FUCK! I have never felt that kind of sensation before.

“See, you Slut? You will beg for more when I start using your asshole as MY second cunt,” you spit out.

Suddenly, you move the head of the toy so it sits on the clit tickler. It puts it into overdrive. I am thrashing, writhing, panting like a dog, begging you: “please, please, please, can I cum now?”

oh yeah

Will you let me cum?

Find out in Punished

 

My Scene

So, I’m lying on bed – very, very horny…knowing that there is no one who is going to help me with this pent-up frustration.

I reach over to my bag of toys and pull out my favourite toy: the butterfly kiss. I am so very horny that it goes in without any effort

I turn it on: the motor hums; the sensations – teasing.

I need much more.

I turn the speed and intensity up… then some more – this is just NOT going to do it for me.

I grab my lube and coat my baby butt plug.  Slowly, slowly I insert it.

Aaah, it’s in… and I have the wonderful sensation of being filled.

4 in a boxI enjoy that feeling for a moment then I reach out for my Hitachi Magic Wand. I place it where the curve of the clit tickler and inserted part meet. I turn it on – it sends the vibrator into overdrive. I can feel the inside bit moving around instead of just vibrating. My clit is buzzing with joy. I turn the speed up.

Holy shit! That’s it!

…but my legs keep clamping together and I can’t seem to allow the sensations take over. I remove all my toys and find the starter bondage set that I bought: : I take out the leg restraints, attach them to my bed; and insert my ankles.

I have kept all the toys within reach so I start again. This time I put the butt plug in first. Again that wonderful feeling. Then the vibrator. Then the Wand.

Oh….this is better.

I lay back and let the sensations flow over me.

Little do I know that I had left the front door open and you were standing at my bedroom doorway watching me.

You watch until it looks like I am about to climax.

Then you crawl into my room to the foot of my bed. You slowly take out the butt plug.

It feels to me that I pushed it out with my tensed muscles.

So I still don’t know you’re there.

open assYou cup my ass with your hand and insert your thumb into my still well-lubricated ass-hole.

What the…?

Because my legs are bound, I can’t get myself up to see what’s going on – but the feeling is wonderful, so I let it keep going.

Next, you take away the Wand and put it to one side. The noise I make tells you that I’m not happy about it.

“Shhhh,” you whisper, “….close your eyes.”

I do as I’m told…because that thumb is moving in and out of ass and making me very happy. It also feels so naughty. And, even though I haven’t worked out who you are, I’m enjoying not knowing.

1. blindfoldedYou remove your thumb and take the blindfold from my kit – you blindfold me, while whispering in my ear, “I won’t hurt you, little one.”

The vibrator is still inside my pussy so the sound of your voice in my ear and the humming of the little machine makes all my muscles clench.

You attach the hand restraints to my bed and to me. I am now spread-eagled naked across my bed with just a blindfold, and a lot of vulnerability.

“Oh, little one,” you say, “you look edible and I’m ravenous.”

You leave the vibrator where it is and decide to claim ownership to my body. This is beginning to scare me. But you start to run your hands and mouth over my body. squeezyYour hands dance over my boobs, followed by your tongue swirling around my nipples. Your tongue plays there until my nipples are hard little nubs…then you pinch them, both at the same time.

I cry out.

Your tongue returns to ‘heal’ them…then you bite my left nipple.

I cry out again.

Your hands have been moving down my body, over the swell of my tummy, tumblr_ldwg5duBRX1qf1dmao1_500so that when I cry out, you insert two fingers into my pussy, with the vibrator.

I am so wet and hungry.

You move yourself so that you are astride me – your face looking towards my toes.

You slide your fingers and the vibrator from my cunt and insert a very wet middle finger into my asshole, while your thumb circles my clit.

My hips are thrusting forward.

“Calm down, little one,” you say. “Open your mouth.”

I do as I’m told.

You hang your cock above my mouth and let the pre-cum drip onto my lips. I lick them and open my mouth again. You lower your cock so the tip of it sits on my lower lip. I try to take it into my mouth – you pull it away.

“Just leave your mouth open,” you order, ”I will do the rest.”

I open my mouth widely. Everything about me is exposed and under your control.

024_RedTube_suckYou lower your cock to my mouth again, very slowly, just to see if I will behave. I leave my mouth open and try not to move, even though your thumb is adding pressure to my clit and I think you have put another finger in my asshole.

You lower yourself further. My tongue reaches out.

“Not yet, little one,” you say.

You allow more of your cock into my mouth…and more. Finally, you are almost sitting on my face – your balls on my nose.

“Now, little one, swirl your tongue around my cock.”

I try to do as I am told.

Your thumb is mimicking the movement of my tongue. I can’t keep still despite the restraints.

You keep your cock in my mouth but remove all the other pleasurable things from my body. I make a noise, a grunt, to show my displeasure.

“Stay still, or there will be no pleasure for you,” you command.

I stop moving.

“Keep your tongue moving,” you bark.

You lean down and insert I-don’t-know-how-many fingers into my asshole. All I know is that I have never felt this full or stretched. You put the tip of your tongue on my clit. I move forward to meet you. You remove your tongue.

“I told you not to move,” you warn.

I am almost in tears. I am so frustrated. I need some release. I lay still.

Once again, the tip of your tongue touches my clit.

I stay still.

The tip of your tongue dances slowly around my clit. I want you to touch it, to lick it, to do anything you want!

I stay still, hoping for more. I swirl my tongue around your cock with more intensity, thinking if I can please you, you will please me.

The warmth of your tongue envelops my clit. You can hear my muffled sigh

“Do NOT cum!” you order, “I have more, better things planned and you will not get them if you cum.”

I lay still, praying that I can handle all these sensations.

When your tongue invades the heat and wetness of my cunt, I buck and thrash and suddenly, waves are flowing over me and your face is soaked in my juices.

“Ah,” you say, “you have no control. You will have to be taught. Now stay still.”

Your tongue continues its exploration of my pussy. You wiggle your fingers in my ass. I try to remain still.  Your tongue begins to mimic a cock and thrust in and out of my pussy. Your cock starts to copy the rhythm until you are fucking my mouth. I wrap my lips around the girth of your cock as you thrust in and out of my mouth.

You move faster and faster. I think I’m about to choke. I try to take a breath, when I feel the warmth of you running down the back of my throat. I swallow it and try to breath.

You move your body from my face. You take your fingers and tongue from my body and I can hear you moving around but I don’t know what you’re doing…until I feel the tip of your cock rubbing against the lips of my cunt.

You lift my ass up and put your knees beneath it. You slowly put your cock into my cunt. I’m holding my breath. I feel the head enter my warmth, then more of you…I sigh contentedly (still trying not to move)…then more of you.

I can feel your cock in my tummy – at least that’s what it feels like.

fucked in chainsYou loosen the restraints on my feet and place my ankles over your shoulders, as you thrust the fullness of you into my inviting cunt. I grunt. You move rhythmically, with total control.

“Now you can start moving. Meet my cock with your body,” you demand.

As you plunge deeper, I lift my hips to meet you and swallow more and more of your cock. You’re holding me on an angle, so you are drilling into me. You thrust your thumbs into my asshole and grip onto my butt cheeks, so tightly that I can feel your nails.

The pumping begins to move faster. I grunt with each movement as the breath leaves my body.

You are holding onto my ass and spreading my cheeks wider and wider as you thrust as deep as you can into my body. I feel like I am about to break. Your grip tightens. I scream out. You fuck me faster and harder – harder than I have ever been fucked before.

Suddenly, it slows down as you cum inside me – yet deepens, if that’s possible, like you’re trying to milk all the juices from your body.

You remove your cock from my pussy.

I feel empty.

I feel you moving around me again.

tumblr_lehh4irHvi1qf1dmao1_500“Lick our juices from my cock,” you command, as you place your cock on my lips.

I begin to lap the wetness from your cock, trying to get each drop, trying to make you happy.

When I have done this, to your satisfaction, you move away from my mouth.

Once again, I hear you moving.

“Stay still, little one,” you whisper, “don’t move,” as you undo the restraints around my hands.

“Stay still, even if I have let you free,” you whisper.

I don’t move.

I hear you moving around some more.

 

Then I don’t hear anything anymore.

I remove my blindfold and you’re gone.

 

What I Wish was in Pandora’s Box – Waterproof Remote Control Bullet

I love like not being responsible for my own pleasure. And I love the idea of going out with some-one and wearing something like this, while he has the remote control in his pocket. Not only would there be the thrill of knowing, at any time, this bullet could start vibrating; but there is the thrill of having a secret from everyone else.

BUT wouldn’t it be fabulous if it could be controlled from a very long way away – like from England or Canada!

Waterproof Remote Control Bullet

TemplateSize: 3.25 X 1.5 inches

Description: Enjoy powerful vibrations without having to worry about messy cords and wires – it has a wireless remote control! Just point the remote, flip the multi-speed switch and indulge in wonderful wireless bliss (even in water). The discreet bullet is quiet enough to take with you wherever you go, but powerful enough to deliver incredible vibrations.

 

I Close My Eyes…

I close my eyes…

Your hands run over my hips,
Followed closely by your lips,
As you sit afore me on the bed;
Sending frissons from my toes to head.

 
I close my eyes…

I feel your eyes upon me:
What is it that you see?
Some-one with whom to have fun?
Something to discard when you’re done?

 
I close my eyes…

Time has passed
I still feel your touch
Or is it just in my mind
Because I want it so much.

 
I close my eyes…

tearsYou’re not here.
You won’t be here again.
Tears stream down my face
In a river of pain.

 
I close my eyes…
It fucking hurts.